Fragmentation

I’ve found out that one of the signs of immaturity is fragmentation: you focus on only one thing and you leave everything else out which leads to disproportion and has bad results. You want to be the best employee – you spend hours on the job, stay overtime, do courses… And it’s never enough. But your family and friends suffer…

You want to be the best parent. You do your best, you read books, you attend courses… Your kids adore you. But your spouse wants a divorce…

You want to be rich and you do even more than you can. And you get better and better financially. But your friends and loved ones suffer…

Immaturity and lack of balance lead to suffering. Always. No matter if you’ll acknowledge it.

Just grow up and work on all the pieces of your life, not just one. You’ll never be perfect anyway. Simply learn to grow in all areas… That’s maturity… And that’s bringing all the pieces together…

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